Divorce Without Destruction: Mediation for Couples Over 50
Separating is hard enough without spending thousands on lawyers if you don’t need to.
Decades of shared history, complicated finances, and family ties can make it a challenging process to navigate.
Bayside Mediation’s experienced FDR Mediators understand the complexities of separating later in life.
We guide tough conversations to help you reach fair solutions, protecting your assets, relationships, and peace of mind – without lengthy and costly court battles.

Mediation & Divorce settlements for couples over 50
Later life separation mediation & dispute resolution
Divorce or separation later in life can be a tough and emotional journey. After years of shared memories, finances, and family ties, every decision feels more important.
Navigating this time can be tricky, but with the right approach, you can make sure your future stays on track.
Mediation ensures your separation is handled with care, giving you the tools to focus on your future.
Bayside Mediation can help you find a clear and respectful way forward, guiding you to solutions that protect your future and preserve your family connections.
Our practitioners are qualified, recognised, industry experts

Later Life Separation Made Easy
Reaching separation agreements for families of all shapes and sizes
When divorce or separation happens later in life, it’s not just about ending a relationship; it’s about untangling lives that have been deeply connected for years.
Mediation offers a forward-thinking alternative to the confrontational nature of court battles.
Here’s why it’s the best choice:
- Preserve Family Bonds: Protect your relationships with adult children, grandchildren, and extended family for a conflict-free future.
- Secure Your Finances: Focus on dividing assets—like your home, superannuation, and investments—fairly to safeguard your financial future.
- Stay in Control: Create agreements that meet your unique needs without leaving critical decisions to a judge.
- Reduce Stress: Our expert mediators guide calm, productive conversations, helping you resolve disputes and move forward with clarity.
Alina is a very honest mediator, she care for her client for their family genuinely.Posted on Alicia L24 July 2025 Thank you Dianne and Alina for resolving our complex mediation in a fair and professional process. My advice to your potential clients is to avoid lawyers at all costs if possible. I paid a heavy legal price and was amazed at their costing and revenue structure designed to maximise profits at every opportunity. Phone calls, emails, even asking you for some information came at cost of $45 each. Unwarranted and unwanted conversations was billed exorbitantly as legal advice. Mediation is the most cost effective way to resolve issues, especially financial separations and division of assets. Pay attention of lawyers per hour rates compared to the costs of mediation. Stay alert, ask questions and maintain control of your costs. I strongly recommend Bayside Mediation if you want a fair, open, cost effective and transparent process to resolve your personal or family issues. Lawyers and Courts is an option that should be avoided at all costs, if possible. At least speak to Bayside Mediation and weigh up your options. They cannot take sides and they operate legally but without the exorbitant fees, hidden charges and costs. Think and be alert before being caught out by the legal trap. Your assets and money belongs in your pocket because stress and vulnerability can lead to making bad choices.depleting you legally !Posted on Jean Leclair1 July 2025 I would like to thank Alina and the team at Bayside mediation for the professionalism and willinginess to support in challenging circumstances. Alina specifically went above and beyod to work to try get stakeholders to the table and her commitment went well beyond just being a facilitor but rather being a figure that can assist to coax stakeholders through apprehension to the table.Posted on Dean Mueller18 June 2025 I want to give a big thanks to Tess, who helped me a lot through my divorce. I went to see her twice, and since then if I had any follow up questions I could text or call her and get a fast answer. She listens to me patiently and always gives a helpful answer. I would recommend Tess’ services to anyone who needs it.Posted on Fatima Jong24 November 2024 I had the need to enquire how the mediation process worked. Alina explained the process to me such that it gave me confidence to get my partner involved. I'm happy that it worked so well for both my partner and myself. Excellent support service from Alina. AnonymousPosted on jeffrey taylor5 October 2024 I was initially quite hesitant about my appointment, having had a bad experience with a different mediation group many years ago. On meeting Dianne, those fears were alleviated. She was compassionate and genuinely focused on helping us reach the best possible outcome for us all. Her consistent availability via phone and email, along with her honest and objective guidance, provided incredible support throughout the entire process. I highly recommend Bayside and Dianne to anyone seeking mediation services. Thank you Dianne and team.Posted on Jeni Jaya26 September 2024Google rating score: 4.3 of 5, based on 64 reviews
Clear solutions for complex challenges
Grey divorce often involves unique challenges, from dividing property and superannuation to maintaining family relationships.
How do you:
- Divide property, superannuation, and investments fairly?
- Address shared debts and ongoing expenses?
- Protect both your financial futures?
Bayside Mediation helps you tackle these questions head-on with structured guidance. Our mediators are not only experts in creating clear, balanced agreements but are also highly trained to manage difficult conversations and diffuse conflict, ensuring discussions remain productive and respectful.
With our support, you’ll communicate effectively, reduce tension, and find agreements that work for both of you.

When choosing a mediator, it's reassuring to know you're in expert hands
Fair Division of Assets
Tailored Solutions
Planning for Future Interactions
Confidentiality and Privacy
Why choose Bayside Mediation separation services?
Simplify your separation
- Cost-Effective Solutions: Save thousands in legal fees and resolve your separation without the delays of court proceedings.
- Customised Outcomes: Mediation addresses your priorities, from dividing assets like property and superannuation to settling ongoing financial arrangements.
- Lower Conflict: Our experienced mediators guide even the most difficult conversations to productive outcomes.
- Dignified Outcomes: Achieve agreements that honour your shared history and set the stage for a confident, positive future.
Separating is hard enough without spending thousands on lawyers if you don’t need to.
We’re here to guide you through later-life separation.
Ready to take the next step towards a fair and lasting resolution?
Contact us today for a tailored solution.
Your relationship separation questions answered
Common questions
How much does separation mediation cost?
It’s important to recognise that most separations aren’t that black and white.
Our family mediation fees start from $500 however, the best way to get a better estimate for your unique situation is to book a free consultation with one of our expert separation & divorce dispute resolution practitioners.
I've seen people talking about preparing a budget before proceeding with a financial settlement, how do I do this?
Creating a budget is a crucial step in the financial settlement process. Start by outlining your income, expenses, and financial goals. Our detailed guide provides step-by-step assistance. Click here to read more.
I keep hearing and the 50/50 split, can you give me more information? I'm not sure how that would work.
The idea of a 50/50 split is common, but it’s essential to understand that it might not be the default. All settlements are tailored to your unique circumstances.
I have concerns that my situation is to difficult for mediation, can mediation still support and finalise my separation when I have difficult ex-partner?
Mediation is designed to address various complexities, even situations involving difficult ex-partners. The process is flexible and can adapt to challenging dynamics. To understand how mediation can support your unique situation, click here to read more.
I have friends who split up but stayed in the same home, what is this?
In-home Separation, sometimes known as “separation under the same roof”, addresses the practical challenges faced by couples during a separation.
Financial constraints can make moving out unfeasible, leading to this increasingly common arrangement.
I’ve heard Mediation is compulsory, is that true?
Yes, it’s true!
In Australia, Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) is a mandatory step before heading to court for parenting matters.
But don’t worry, it’s an opportunity for open dialogue and resolution.