Child Focused Mediation – A Positive Alternative to Lawyers

Child Focused Mediation at Bayside Mediation ensures children’s voices are heard during separation. Our trained mediators help families create safe, balanced parenting agreements that prioritise wellbeing, strengthen parent–child relationships, and provide lasting outcomes without costly court battles.

If you and your partner are separating, Child Focused Mediation can help you make challenging parenting decisions by putting your child’s wellbeing first.

One of the first things to consider is that separating families are required by the Family Law Act to make a genuine effort to sort out any disputes about children through family dispute resolution.

Many parents are unaware of how their children truly feel during this time. By including their perspective, families can reach agreements that meet real needs and create lasting stability.

At Bayside Mediation, we provide Child Inclusive and Child Focused Mediation to ensure that the child’s best interests are the focus of all decisions made.

Benefits of Child Inclusive Mediation

If you are considering child focused mediation, your family is most likely experiencing a separation, something that can be extremely stressful for parents and kids alike. The good news is that today, there is a growing awareness of the importance of including children in the mediation process to ensure that their needs are met. Involving children in child focused mediation is a positive thing for many reasons.

Here are a few of the specific benefits of Child Inclusive Mediation.

  • Gives children a voice – ensures their feelings are heard and respected.
  • Strengthens parent–child relationships – children feel reassured when both parents listen.
  • Leads to better long-term outcomes – children involved in planning often adjust more successfully socially, emotionally, and academically.

What to Expect from Child Focused Mediation at Bayside Mediation

If you have never experienced child focused mediation in before, you may be wondering what to expect or even feel apprehensive about involving your child in the process.

It is a simple process designed to make your child feel comfortable sharing their feelings and help everyone reach an agreement that focuses first and foremost on your child’s well-being.

Here are a few things you can expect when you begin the process of including your child during mediation:

  • Child Focused sessions (under 4 years old): Parents meet with the mediator to explore child development and age-appropriate arrangements.
  • Child Inclusive sessions (4+ years): Children meet privately with a psychologist–mediator who provides them a safe space to share their feelings.
  • Follow-up session: Parents receive feedback on how their child is coping and what they would like communicated.
  • Parenting Plan session: Parents work together, informed by the child’s perspective, to agree on arrangements that prioritise wellbeing.

 

Why Choose Bayside Mediation

At Bayside Mediation, our accredited Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) Practitioners provide a supportive, private alternative to using lawyers without the hefty legal fees.

We put children first in every mediation, ensuring their needs guide parenting and financial agreements. Our goal is to help families find peaceful, practical solutions that avoid costly court battles.

Ready to Put Your Child First?

If you’re considering separation or struggling to reach an agreement and want to explore Child Focused Mediation, our accredited practitioners are here to help.

Reach out today to discuss your family’s needs and take the first step toward a peaceful, practical agreement.

Get in Touch with Bayside Mediation 

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